A: You're not the first woman to find yourself in this predicament, and you won't be the last. As we grow up and experience life, we discover more about who we really are, what we want and need. However, often life quickly sweeps us away, so we already have a family before we realize who our true self is. The high divorce rate reflects how our desires change over the years. This is an extremely difficult situation - do you honor your marriage vows and dedicate yourself to your children and remain miserable, or be your true self and lead a life that will make you happy. I suggest counseling before you make any drastic changes to your life. You will need support whatever decision you make.

Good Luck!