A:Many couples have different sexual appetites. In fact, a mismatched libido is very common. It's important to communicate with your partner and tell him you're rejecting sex rather than him. Explain you don't feel like it and that you will tell him when you do. There are other ways to satisfy your partner that don't include penetrative sex - such as oral sex, handjobs and watching him do it in front of you. All of this is little effort for you but a big turn-on for him. A satisfying sex life is vitally important in marriage, so do make an effort to be intimate with your husband.

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