Prioritise your partner.
Make time to spend with your partner each week.They come before work, children or other family commitments. Have fun together! Enjoy each others company! Discuss with each other the things you used to enjoy doing together in the early days of your relationship.

A common mistake many couples make is to ‘wait until they are both in the mood. ‘With the pace of life so hectic, with so many added pressures, the majority of couples are rarely both wanting to be intimate at the same time.
Plan ahead & put aside time to indulge in sex.
Many people hold the belief that sex should always be spontaneous with no forward planning. WRONG!
It can be a highly erotic experience to plan with your partner a sexual encounter that will take place in a few days time.
Where? When? Setting? Clothing? Lingerie? Adult Sex Toys?
The anticipatory build – up is a big turn on.
Another misconception many people hold is that one should wait until one feels like having sex before having sex.
Even if your partner makes sexual moves on you and you many not really think you feel like it – relax, go with the flow. You may be surprised how quickly you can become aroused!

Peoples' tastes change over time – this also applies in the area of sex.
Share with your partner what you like / don't like and also discuss something new you would like to try.
Each person takes a turn to decide on a new sexual activity that you will both try out. Both parties need to feel comfortable with the new activities to be tried out.
Some examples might be watching a sexy movie, using a vibrator or lightly tying your partner's hands & making them wear a blindfold.

Best of Luck!