A: On the one hand it's dishonest to deliberately get pregnant by a man who isn't trying for a baby with you. That's not a nice thing to do to a person and I'm not sure if I could live with that. However, the fact remains that many thirty something women are commited to relationships with men who do not want to commit until their forties. Biologically this leaves it very late for the woman to wait for him. Many of these men want their cake and to eat it. Since you're 43 and time is running out, take the bull by the horns and do what you feel is best.

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