A: Passion is heady and lovely, but you have to imagine being with that person when you’re seventy years old! The saying ‘beauty is only skin deep’ is true – being beautiful on the inside is what truly matters. Having a kind loving reliable partner with shared interests is better than a tempestuous ‘hot’ relationship and / or a relationship with someone you have little in common or connection with.

A: A pattern shared by many women, including my good self. There are numerous good self-help books to refer to, such as Robin Norwood’s ‘Women Who Love Too Much’ (see our recommended reading section). If it’s ruining your love life then don’t be afraid to seek the advice of a qualified counselor. A counselor may really help you to identity your patterns, the reason for them, and ways to stop them so you can improve your life.

A: Read our Counselor’s hot tips. Invest in your love life by purchasing Oohtique! products and make the effort to set the scene for love. Generally the more sex you have the more you want it.

A: Better read our Counselor’s hot tips fast. Making an effort and communication is key to this dilemma. Spice up your love life – change position, don’t change partner! Look at Oohtique! products that help create a sensual mood for lovemaking.

All you need is Love!